I like to be able to choose what I do with my time each day. As I grow older I find I’m less inclined to take on tasks or roles unless I get satisfaction from doing them. I have a number of voluntary roles and some of them I’ve held for several years. In most cases they use skills I’ve learned and developed, and it feels good to continue using these skills. Other roles, although they use my skills, have become onerous, and over the last year I’ve been pleased to drop a couple of those. Relinquishing responsibility does not mean my mental functions are diminished. It simply means I’m choosing to spend time doing what I enjoy.
In many organisations it gets increasingly harder to find a new person willing to take on a responsible role. In two instances I’ve simply resigned from the role, and someone else has eventually volunteered to take it on. It’s not easy to say I resign when there’s no obvious candidate to take over, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised at the outcome. I also believe it’s healthier for an organisation to have regular changes in their positions of responsibility.
With a couple of my roles gone I’ve been able to join a new writing group, and have more time and energy for socializing. I can recommend making such a change.
It’s great to prune out some old wood
and do the things that just feel good
Yes! Great to initiate and then follow our real energy streams. One thing I find most tiresome when you are an innovator is that hacking a clear new pathway through people’s unconscious biases and emotional reactions disguised as logical arguments is so stressful! Yet I seem to endlessly find myself, off road, down a ditch or cliff, clawing myself back to safety. Any advice on having a cool and fun way in my last third of my life is welcomed!!!!
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I think it’s a matter of knowing what you want, then going for it.
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There’s usually one person that volunteers and does the work until they step back and another one person takes over, sometimes from my experience that person does more than everyone else.
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We all do things differently, but there are some basic tasks that are essential. I’m now off to do an annual report to Charities Services.
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