“My mother and other secrets” by Wendyl Nissen

I was hooked by the Introduction to this book because I could relate to much of it. The first chapter has a great opening line: “On the day I killed my mother I sewed a dress.”

The book goes on to give details of Wendyl’s life and her mother’s. Her family research is impressive, and the tale is written in an approachable and matter-of-fact way. The book is full of compelling family stories told with humour and love. The author is honest about the complicated relationship she had with her mother, and there is useful information about dealing with someone with dementia. Included are practical snippets about how we can prepare for the final stages of life. I felt pleased that I have completed an Advanced Care Plan, and lodged it with the local Health Board.

There was so much she did not know
about events of long ago