In Wellington I found myself being obliged (and willing) to tell others how life is in Christchurch. Sunday with my friend was fine. I wanted to share with her on a personal level as we always do.
I was not prepared for the intense interest from others. Monday morning I breakfasted with two conference-goers, one I already knew, and one a stranger. It seemed that every topic that arose had a Christchurch aspect and I was continually explaining how things are here – the reality of life in an earthquake zone.
The Conference welcome included a minute’s silence for Christchurch which I found difficult emotionally. It seemed to go on for several minutes, and was followed by a number of sessions focussed on the earthquake. These two days were the first time I’ve talked face-to-face with caring people from outside Christchurch and it triggered all the stress I’ve been feeling recently. I was relieved when two other women from Christchurch told me they’d also shed tears at several points. It’s logical that a Volunteering Conference should focus on a recent natural disaster where volunteers have played such a wonderful part, but it was too soon for me. I was careful in my choice of sessions to avoid an overdose of earthquake analysis, and really appreciated those who gave me caring support. Home again, on Wednesday morning I was woken by a sharp quake measuring 4.1. It certainly hasn’t stopped!
“I could have done without the fuss
and fewer earthquakes to discuss.”
I can see how the stress goes on and on. It sounds hard.
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Hello Ruth,
I found your blog via Letters from Wetville, via A Delight-filled Life and the circle turned again when I found that you read Juliet’s blog which I had just discovered from another search. Further links happened for me when I found Miraz’s blog on your Sister sites.
Miraz taught me “Computer Confidence for Women” at Whitireia Polytech around 1990. It was a brilliant course.
Thank you for being so honest in your blogging.
I wish you warmth.
Lynley
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Hello Lynley – It’s a small cyberworld, isn’t it? Always good to make another connection.
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I think I was aware before the conference that the agenda would put up some stressful moments for you Ruth. This is where I wish our world was not so instantly-connected, so in-your-face wanna-know details. At conference I stuck to the management of volunteers stream, thus by-passing much of the material that I should really know about.
Kia kaha for your present circumstances.
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